Obsessed06 Aug 20245 MIN

SoBo has a new tile addiction

A new subculture is brewing in Maximum City—in homes as well as social clubs—with Mahjong at its centre

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Photographs by Sarang Gupta

There’s a new habit sweeping through living rooms in the high rises of Mumbai and in the card rooms of its tony private members’ clubs. And it’s not that worst-kept secret (*cough* Ozempic *cough*) that I’m talking about, but another equally addictive trend. 

That clicking you hear isn’t champagne flutes being clinked or stilettos crossing the room, but the unrelenting clacking of green and white tiles. Mahjong, the Chinese game of strategy and luck, has become the game of the moment—and it’s not just the retirees who are drawing tiles. A few months ago, when I texted a school mom to ask if her daughter could stay for dinner at ours, she said, “Sure! I’ll get in an extra hour of Mahjong.” It felt like the beginning of a new subculture.

Until recently, the only reference I had for the game was that pivotal scene in Crazy Rich Asians in which Rachel shows up and goes head-to-head with Eleanor, the disapproving mother of her boyfriend. Spoiler alert: it’s a scene ripe with subtext and symbolism, in which Rachel leaves Eleanor dumbfounded by her strategic mind both in the game and in their equation.

“Thanks to Crazy Rich Asians, I always associated the game with much older women,” laughs content creator Pooja Advani, who runs Luxiste, an Instagram page dedicated to luxury fashion and lifestyle content. “But I can never say no to a game, so when my friends invited me to try this, I was all for it.” At least twice a week, Advani and her Mahjong gang meet at Mumbai’s Willingdon club, where phones are off limits and Eggs Kejriwal, chaat, and coffee are in endless supply. Needless to say, the waitlist to learn is a mile long.

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Mahjong is having a moment again, thanks in part to the iconic scene in 'Crazy Rich Asians'

Mahjong originated in 19th-century China. In some dialects, the word means ‘sparrow’, referring to the sound of the tiles. The tiles themselves are beautifully designed; once made of bone and ivory, now of plastic. A game has four players, whose objective is to collect sequenced sets of tiles.

As social as it is strategic, the game has always been popular with Indian Army wives posted in small towns, where creating community was essential. Now, it’s been seeing a resurgence in living rooms not just in Mumbai, but around the world.

Just last month, The New York Times did an extensive feature on how the game has come into the spotlight as younger generations of Asian Americans take it outside their family homes, giving rise to discussions on identity, community, the immigrant experience and cultural appropriation.

Ritu Jaggia, a Mahjong teacher in Mumbai, says she’s seen a spike in signups for this fast-paced tile game post the pandemic. “I started teaching Mahjong at the insistence of my bridge partner, Laylla Mehta,” shares Jaggia, whose current clientele is “mostly women, but across age groups.” Every week, when she meets her trio of friends, Alka Samant, Kalindi Kilachand and Mamta Kilachand, the only thing constant on the agenda is Mahjong.

Like any new convert, Jaggia enjoys the game to such an extent that she’s constantly honing her skills by participating in tournaments and learning. “The first one I took part in was at The Willingdon Club tournament in December 2023. There were 44 participants from Mumbai and Pune. I won that tournament, but you could say it was beginner's luck,” she says, adding that her next tournament is taking her to Nashik.

Not too far from her pin code lives Sangeeta Kewalramani, who also takes Mahjong classes, and picked it up from an expat friend. She doesn’t play competitively, but her students range from the age of 13 to 70. “The best way to get into the game is to form a group with friends and take classes to learn the basics. It really is a game that never gets old, and keeps your mind sharp and alert,” she says.

While Mahjong tables may not have found a permanent spot in our living rooms just yet, for many urban women in Mumbai, it has become an essential moment of respite in a manic day. Entrepreneur Petals Deas started playing with the green tiles when she was pregnant. “I wanted to learn a new skill and hang out with my friends,” says the founder of luxury gifting label Velvet Ribbon, who plans game nights every week at home. The new mom says she hosts two tables of eight, usually in the afternoons and early evenings, when the kids are away. The 90-minute sessions involve a little chit chat, some food and drink and most importantly, using your mind. “I’ve played cards my whole life—and this is a little bit of rummy, a little bit of poker, all in a pretty package of beautiful tiles,” she says. “It’s about strategy, but also luck.”

A game that can be enjoyed in the comforts of your house through the cooped-up months of the monsoon and one that offers the dual opportunity of familial bonding and friendly competition perhaps explains Mahjong's appeal. “My sister who lives in Hong Kong plays and my mother learnt to play Mahjong, so I thought it was something fun we could do together when we were all in the same city. It’s a relatively intelligent game, you have to be engaged, and honestly, with all the mindless scrolling we do, it’s a welcome change to be with friends and also to think of your next move,” shares education entrepreneur Hemali Lathia Dalal about her Mahjong motivation.

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Mahjong offers a dual opportunity for in-person bonding and friendly competition

For Abha Shah Mehta, who works in publishing, it was just a break from the city’s limited downtime pursuits. “Most social activities in Mumbai revolve around restaurants, bars or parties, so you’re pretty much just eating and drinking,” she adds. “I love how stimulating Mahjong is, and we play, catch up on our weeks, and the game has so many variations—it never gets boring.” Shah Mehta is not your typical cards-obsessed lady, though strategy board games like Catan have taken a sizeable part of her time in the past. “I love the community feel that Mahjong offers, and the fact that it’s become a staple at clubs around the city, shows that its appeal is pretty much universal, across age groups and genders,” she adds about her 10-month-old obsession.

Besides their shared love for the game, all these women have full lives, with careers, children and the general madness that the Maximum City throws at us.

And though sometimes getting a quorum can be tough, they are committed to playing regularly. “We did do one 24-hour Mahjong day trip to Alibaug,” shares Advani. “It’s a way to spend some time with my girls in a positive way. It's exercise for the mind, and when I see the club tables filled with empty nesters, I see it as a great way for me to keep up with my friends and also keep myself mentally stimulated as I grow older.”

She has me sold.

I call my mother, a rummy player, who has been feeling some ennui with her game, and suggest she try her hand at Mahjong. The algorithm dutifully complies. Apparently, Mahjong rooms are the design world’s latest obsession. Maybe they will be a permanent fixture in our homes after all.